Anything is to be preferred or endured rather than marrying without affection.

Letter, November 18, 1814, to her niece, Fanny Knight. Jane Austen

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An artist cannot do anything slovenly.

Letter, November 17, 1798, to her sister, Cassandra. Jane Austen

Unhappy as the event must be … we may draw from it this useful lesson: that loss of virtue in a female is irretrievable; that one false step involves her in endless ruin; that her reputation is no less brittle than it is beautiful; and that she cannot be too much guarded in her behaviour towards the undeserving of the other sex.

No man is offended by another man’s admiration of the woman he loves, it is the woman only who can make it a torment.

The younger brother must help to pay for the pleasures of the elder.

With men he can be rational and unaffected, but when he has ladies to please, every feature works.