In married life affection comes when people thoroughly dislike each other.

An Ideal Husband, Lord Goring, Act 3
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More from Oscar Wilde

I’ll be a poet, a writer, a dramatist. Somehow or other I’ll be famous, and if not famous, I’ll be notorious. Or perhaps I’ll lead the life of pleasure for a time and then—who knows?—rest and do nothing. What does Plato say is the highest end that man can attain here below? To sit down and contemplate the good. Perhaps that will be the end of me too.

Quoted in "In Victorian days and other papers" By Sir David Oswald Hunter-Blair (1939)

I have the simplest tastes. I am always satisfied with the best.

Quoted in "Oscar Wilde, an idler's impression" By Edgar Saltus (1917)

Disobedience is man’s original virtue. It is through disobedience that progress has been made, through disobedience and through rebellion.

When a woman marries again it is because she detested her first husband. When a man marries again it is because he adored his first wife. Women try their luck; men risk theirs.

Such idle dreams belong
To souls of lesser depth than mine;
I feel that I am half devine;
I know that I am great and strong.

Lotus Leaves (poem)