A folded, slightly torn pink paper heart rests on a windowsill against a dusky sky.

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In Memoriam A.H.H. · 1849

Alfred Tennyson

I hold it true, whate’er befall; I feel it when I sorrow most; ‘Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all.

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Our interpretation.

The speaker affirms the value of love at the very moment when loss might most strongly challenge it. Sorrow does not cancel the judgment; it is where the conviction is felt most keenly. The comparison places a painful experience of love above a life that never contained it.

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