Two small glass candle holders sit side by side, one smoking and the other burning with a tall golden flame.

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Maximes  ·  1678

François de la Rochefoucauld

Absence diminishes commonplace passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and kindles fire.

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What it means

Our interpretation.

Separation is given opposite effects depending on the attachment involved. The comparison does not make distance uniformly harmful or helpful; it distinguishes feelings that fade from those that intensify. Candlelight and a larger fire provide visible examples of how the same external influence can produce contrary results.

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