Two separate frayed friendship cords, rose and slate, with their cut ends visible

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On the Conduct of Life · 1822

William Hazlitt

Do not keep on with a mockery of friendship after the substance is gone — but part, while you can part friends. Bury the carcass of friendship: it is not worth embalming.

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What it means

Our interpretation.

Once a friendship has hollowed out, pretending otherwise only drags out the discomfort. Better to end it cleanly while goodwill still remains than to keep performing closeness for its own sake. The embalming image is blunt on purpose, insisting that dead things shouldn't be dressed up and kept around.

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