A man stands at the edge of a canyon in a painted, impressionist afterlife landscape, looking toward a faint woman's figure across the gulf.

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Chris Nielsen

Why can't I see you?

— What Dreams May Come • 1998

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What it means

Our interpretation.

Said by a man who has lost everything and cannot yet grasp that he is the one who has changed. The question works as the film's grief in miniature: the dead can still see the people they love, but cannot be seen. Fans quote it for anyone separated from a loved one by death, distance or silence, and it is a staple of the film's tearjerker reputation.

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What Dreams May Come (1998, directed by Vincent Ward from Richard Matheson's 1978 novel) follows Chris Nielsen, a doctor who dies in a car crash four years after losing his two children. Unaware that he is dead and confused that nobody will interact with him, Chris lingers on Earth as a ghost and watches his wife Annie, an artist, try to cope with his loss. He tries to reach her, despite a presence advising that it will only hurt her, and each attempt deepens her grief. The film won the Academy Award for Best Visual Effects.

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