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Let this great maxim be my virtue's guide,-- In part she is to blame that has been tried: He comes too near that comes to be denied.
— Lady Mary Wortley Montagu

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An editorial interpretation.
The speaker proposes guarding virtue by preventing an approach that would need to be refused. The line that partly blames a woman for being tried expresses the poem's restrictive maxim; it does not make unwanted advances her fault.
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