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Let this great maxim be my virtue's guide,-- In part she is to blame that has been tried: He comes too near that comes to be denied.

— Lady Mary Wortley Montagu

Three carved theatrical masks in black, charcoal and pale grey show different degrees of frowning against slate.
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An editorial interpretation.

The speaker proposes guarding virtue by preventing an approach that would need to be refused. The line that partly blames a woman for being tried expresses the poem's restrictive maxim; it does not make unwanted advances her fault.

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