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The Lady's Resolve

Lady Mary Wortley Montagu

Let this great maxim be my virtue's guide,-- In part she is to blame that has been tried: He comes too near that comes to be denied.

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What it means

Our interpretation.

The verse proposes a restrictive rule of virtue that assigns some blame to a woman who has been approached and treats refusal as evidence that an approach came too near. This is the poem’s judgment, not a fair account of responsibility or consent.

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