Painterly pale stone and terracotta hands reaching towards each other across a small gap.

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The Handmaid's Tale ‧ 1985

Margaret Atwood

The more difficult it was to love the particular man beside us, the more we believed in Love, abstract and total.

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Our interpretation.

The speaker notes an irony: when loving the actual person nearby was hardest, faith in love as an abstract, complete ideal grew stronger. Devotion to the idea can become a substitute for the harder work of caring for a particular, flawed individual.

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