If you love someone you say it, you say it right then, out loud. Otherwise the moment just passes you by.

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• And in the middle of all this, I started to think about the one thing that makes me feel really good and makes immediate sense...and it's you.
• Absence diminishes commonplace passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and kindles fire.
• Absence is to love as wind to fire; it extinguishes the little flame, it fans the big.
• Absence makes the heart grow fonder: Isle of Beauty, fare thee well!
• Absence, with all its pains, is, by this charming moment, wiped away.
• A lady's imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to matrimony in a moment.