In a candlelit nineteenth-century dining room, a pompous guest seen from behind declaims at the head of a long table set with silver while a housekeeper and maid quietly count the spoons at the sideboard.

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The Conduct of Life ‧ 1860

Ralph Waldo Emerson

The louder he talked of his honor, the faster we counted our spoons.

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It is a proverb for the gap between boasting and behaviour: the more someone insists on their integrity, the more reason you have to check your pockets. Emerson's own target was bigger than one shifty neighbour, since the passage goes on to the public cheat who earns respect, but the spoons are what stuck. Today it is the standard reply to any politician or salesman who protests too much.

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The sentence comes from "Worship", the sixth essay in Ralph Waldo Emerson's The Conduct of Life (1860). Emerson is arguing that society punishes small, private crooks while fawning over big public ones. A pickpocket who slips into a gathering of gentlemen is shown the door, he says, but a man who gets himself elected senator or president by the same tricks is given dinners and ovations. He then looks back at the plain thief: nobody was fooled by his talk, for the louder he spoke of his honor, the faster the household counted its spoons.

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