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I want you to stop trying to control my life just because you can’t control yours!
— Kat ‧ 10 Things I Hate About You

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Our reading
An editorial interpretation.
The speaker demands that someone stop dictating their life, accusing them of doing it because their own life feels out of control. It is a pointed reversal: the controlling behaviour is presented as displacement, the other person's disorder being pushed onto the speaker.
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