A doormat with a muddy boot print and a translucent lavender wisp rising above it against a plum background.

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Delia

Lydia, I have a chance to teach you something here. You have got to take the upper hand in all situations or people, whether they're dead or alive, will walk all over you.

— Beetlejuice  ·  1988

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What it means

Our interpretation.

Here the speaker lectures Lydia on assertiveness: seize control in every situation, or people will treat you like a doormat. The twist is the phrase 'whether they're dead or alive', which stretches the advice to ghosts too and makes it funnier.

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