A maid in a white apron kneels on a nursery rug with a curly-haired toddler in a yellow dress, building blocks beside a white crib and a magnolia window.

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Aibileen Clark

You is kind, you is smart, you is important.

— The Help · 2011

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What it means

Our interpretation.

It is the whole film in a nursery rhyme: the one adult who sees this child tells her, daily, the things the house never will. Spoken in Aibileen's dialect and with total conviction, it landed as a mantra for parents and teachers, and its three-beat rhythm made it a favourite of parents and teachers.

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In context

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In The Help (2011), Aibileen Clark is a Black maid in a white household in early-1960s Jackson, Mississippi, raising Mae Mobley, the toddler daughter of her employer Elizabeth Leefolt, who barely notices the child. Aibileen answers that neglect with a private ritual: she sits with Mae Mobley and has her repeat these three affirmations. The film, directed by Tate Taylor from Kathryn Stockett's novel, ends with Elizabeth firing Aibileen over a false theft accusation, and Aibileen saying goodbye to the little girl she has raised.

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