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General benevolence, but not general friendship, made a man what he ought to be.
— Jane Austen • Emma

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Our reading
An editorial interpretation.
The passage distinguishes goodwill toward people generally from friendship with everyone. It presents broad kindness as the quality that makes someone what they ought to be. Read this way, decency does not require universal intimacy: benevolence can reach beyond the circle of personal friendship.
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