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Remembrance of Things Past

Marcel Proust

In a separation it is the one who is not really in love who says the more tender things.

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What it means

Our interpretation.

The quotation separates tender language from the depth of someone's love. In a separation, it claims, the less loving person may speak more gently. That reversal challenges the idea that affectionate words reliably show who feels the strongest attachment during a parting.

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