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If you give off signals that you don’t want to belong, people will make sure that you don’t.
— Pretty in Pink · 1986
Behind the line
What it means
Our interpretation.
The speaker argues that signals of not wanting to belong can influence how other people respond. The warning makes exclusion seem self-reinforcing: a perceived distance invites more distance. Read critically, that explanation also places considerable responsibility on the person who is being excluded.
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