A toy steering wheel with a thin red thread leading to a suspended red leaf on a moss-green background.

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J.K. Rowling

There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you.

— 2008 Harvard University Commencement Address

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What it means

Our interpretation.

Rowling says blaming your parents has an expiry date. Once you're old enough to take the wheel, the direction is your responsibility. It's a firm but practical nudge to stop pointing backward and start steering.

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