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You know, when your mother died, a thousand people said a thousand stupid things to me and I just wanted one of them to give me a reason not to die.
— Everwood ‧ 2002
Behind the line
What it means
Our interpretation.
Grief gets no useful help from sympathy, and Andy, a doctor who ordinarily fixes things, says what many mourners think: kind words cannot give a reason to go on. Fans quote it for the way it names the hollow comfort of condolences without bitterness, and because the show gives Andy no easy answer.
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In context
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In Everwood's first season (episode 10, 2002), a blizzard has kept Dr. Andy Brown's son Ephram at a friend's house overnight, after a bitter row between them in front of everyone. The next morning Andy apologises: he is supposed to be the grown-up, he says, and he gets angry at himself because he cannot make Ephram see how much he needs him. Then he tells him this, and remembers the night soon after Julia's death when Ephram said everything would be okay, the first night Andy slept. Ephram, he says, is the one person he believes when he says it.
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- Everwood season 1 episode 10 transcriptThe morning after the snowstormReference checked
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