Painterly pale stone and terracotta hands reaching towards each other across a small gap.

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Rodney Fraser

One shouldn’t be too hard on oneself when the object of one’s affection returns the favor with rather less enthusiasm than one might have hoped.

— The Object of My Affection ‧ 1998

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Our interpretation.

Rodney Fraser offers a gentle, wry consolation. If the person you adore feels less than you hoped, it isn't a reason to blame yourself. The polite, roundabout phrasing makes the sting of mismatched feelings sound almost gracious.

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