A bundle of mismatched wooden spoons tied with rope, with a plain rubber stamp beside it on a brick-red background.

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Jerry

You're born into a family. You do not join them like you do the Marines.

— While You Were Sleeping · 1995

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What it means

Our interpretation.

This draws a contrast between the two ways people end up in a group. You arrive in a family by birth, without applying, whereas you enlist to join the Marines. The speaker uses that comparison to say family isn't something you sign up for.

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