More from Letter, December 16, 1816, to her nephew, J. Edward Austen. Jane Austen
- A man would always wish to give a woman a better home than the one he takes her from; and he who can do it, where there is no doubt of her regard, must, I think, be the happiest of mortals.
- A mind lively and at ease, can do with seeing nothing, and can see nothing that does not answer.
- A Mr. (save, perhaps, some half dozen in the nation,) always needs a note of explanation.
- An artist cannot do anything slovenly.
- An engaged woman is always more agreeable than a disengaged. She is satisfied with herself. Her cares are over, and she feels that she may exert all her powers of pleasing without suspicion. All is safe with a lady engaged; no harm can be done.
- Anything is to be preferred or endured rather than marrying without affection.
Last reviewed 2026-07-06