A smiling yellow paper mask on a stick leans beside a white flower in a glass of water.

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Angela Chase

Sometimes I think if my mother wasn't so good at pretending to be happy she might be better at actually being happy.

— My So-Called Life · 1994

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What it means

Our interpretation.

The speaker reasons that a parent who's expert at faking happiness may never reach the real thing, because the performance takes over. It's a perceptive twist: skill at appearing fine could be what keeps someone from actually being fine.

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