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Marie

All I'm saying is that somewhere out there is the man you are supposed to marry. And if you don't get him first, somebody else will, and you'll have to spend the rest of your life knowing that somebody else is married to your husband.

— When Harry Met Sally... • 1989

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What it means

Our interpretation.

Marie treats a destined partner as someone who can nevertheless be claimed by another person. The warning turns a romantic promise into a race. Calling that other person’s spouse your husband sharpens the contradiction, making a relationship that never happened sound like something already lost.

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